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Saturday, May 14, 2022

  1. Physical Attraction
  2. Same age group
  3. Humor
  4. Wisdom
  5. Smartness
  6. Practicality
  7. Integrity
  8. Family/Relationship values
  9. Financial stability
  10. Mental stability
  11. Diplomacy
  12. Patience
  13. Sexual compatibility
  14. Class
  15. Caring / Catering
  16. Principles (Morals/Ethics)
  17. Athletic / Physically active
  18. Concern for one's health
  19. Matchable Daily routine
  20. Similar personality
  21. Agreement on spiritual differences
  22. Respect for each other's family
  23. Care towards one's bad habits
  24. Appreciation of one's good habits
  25. Agreement to let-go when there's only disagreement

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Monday, April 25, 2022

1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behavior.

2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you’ve lost them.
3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don’t let them chose what they want.
6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
7. If your child does not respect other people’s feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.
8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehavior and you give little attention to good behavior.
9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don’t successfully complete it.
10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don’t follow through.
12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don’t trust that you won’t blow things out of proportion.
13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behavior.
14. If your child doesn’t listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to jump to conclusions
15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right


Reference -
http://www.subramoney.com/2014/12/you-and-your-child/
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Friday, March 04, 2022

Topics to Discuss:

The below listed topics can lead to good conversations as they are evergreen and universal in likeness:

  1. Food
  2. Travel
  3. Movies/TV
  4. Fashion/Clothes
  5. Dance
  6. Family/Loved-ones
  7. Introverted vs Extroverted Nature
  8. What they love
  9. What they want in life
  10. How they want to retire/rest
  11. Investing strategy for savings
  12. What truly satisfies them in their day currently
  13. What they wish they would be able to do everyday or every week
  14. What they would do if they had all the money in the world


Topics to Avoid:

No matter what you think; the above listed topics of discussion are only going to head downhill.

  1. Politics (both National & International)
  2. Economics/Governance
  3. Personal Finance
  4. Personal Savings amount
  5. Religion/God
  6. Education/Achievements/Career
  7. Diet/Health/Exercise
  8. Vegan vs Meat Preferences
  9. Feminism
  10. Sexuality
  11. Comparing parents/siblings success to their own
  12. What annoys them
  13. What they hate
  14. Something you cant wait to ask them even though you know it will be taken negatively
  15. What you already know through them or their friends not to bring up as its a sensitive topic for them

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Monday, April 01, 2019
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 PERSONALITY/ "Id" (DEFAULT SELF):
  1. Involves Un/Sub Conscious, Preconscious and Conscious.
  2. Is oneself.
  3. Presents choices.
  4. Includes 2 Personal identities; obvious and oblivious.
  5. Different for Behavior under stressful and non-stressful conditions.
  6. Different for Behavior in public and non-public situations.
  7. Willing to go against Attitude, Confidence, Defeatism, Empathy, Ego, and Super-Ego.
  8. Either it is Disorderly (Narcissism, etc) or it isn't.

ATTITUDE (PROJECTED SELF):
  1. Involves Preconscious and Conscious.
  2. Limit of one's own perceived reality.
  3. Makes choices.
  4. One's response of/to internal and external conditions.
  5. Defines and is thus defined by memories, traits, habits, and decisions.
  6. Willing to go against Confidence, Defeatism, Empathy, and Ego. 
  7. Thinks it's in favor of Personality and Super-Ego.
  8. Doesn't think of Narcissism.

CONFIDENCE/OPTIMISM (POSITIVE-SELF BELIEF):
  1. Involves the Conscious.
  2. Part of oneself.
  3. Sets up choices.
  4. Projected outwards or inwards as proof of deserving/strength.
  5. Completely or combination of projected/assumed or earned/true.
  6. Developed only internally via self or external mediation.
  7. Increases success by motivating ambition and achievable goals.
  8. Necessary human trait for everyone.
  9. Needed to compete with oneself while rising in life.
  10. Willing to go against Defeatism and Attitude. 
  11. Thinks it's in favor of Personality, Ego and Super-Ego.
  12. Far from Narcissism.

DEFEATISM/PESSIMISM (NEGATIVE-SELF BELIEF):
  1. Involves Conscious.
  2. Disbelief in oneself.
  3. Cancels choices.
  4. Projected outwards or inwards as proof of deserving/weakness.
  5. Completely or combination of projected/assumed or earned/true.
  6. Develops internally or externally via self or external mediation respectfully.
  7. Decreases success by demotivating ambition thus making goals unachievable.
  8. Human, but Optional/temporary trait for everyone.
  9. Keeps oneself from competing and rising in life.
  10. Willing to go against Attitude, Confidence, Empathy and Ego. 
  11. Thinks it's in favor of Personality and Super-Ego.
  12. Thinks it's against Narcissism.

EMPATHY (PROJECTED POSITIVE-EXTERNAL BELIEF):
  1. Involves Preconscious and Conscious.
  2. Extension of oneself, for the preservation of others.
  3. Offers/filters choices; one proceeds in the best way for others (in balance with oneself).
  4. Projected outwards or inwards as proof of character/positivity.
  5. Optional; but produces optimism, purpose, stability, and mental peace at the cost of some success.
  6. World-preserving inverse-Ponzi scheme that increases actual worth by instilling self- respect.
  7. Healthy measure of worth of and respect for others.
  8. Projected through current/past selfless work.
  9. Paces oneself against an deflated measure of oneself.
  10. Is accepted by oneself as necessary selflessness.
  11. No want for attention, reverence, praise or glorification.
  12. Filters harm or hamper to everyone; everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt.
  13. Can maintain success of others when managed by a well-structured system that ensures sustainability.
  14. Willing to go against Attitude, Confidence and Defeatism. 
  15. Thinks it's in favor of Super-Ego.
  16. Against Narcissism.

EGO (PROJECTED POSITIVE-SELF BELIEF):
  1. Involves Preconscious and Conscious.
  2. Obvious extension of oneself.
  3. Improves/increases choices.
  4. Offers choice; one proceeds in the best calculated way.
  5. Provides a healthy measure of self-worth and self-respect.
  6. Earned through hard and/or smart work.
  7. Used to validly measure oneself relative to others.
  8. Necessary human imperfection in everyone except the saints.  
  9. Needed to compete with others while rising in life.
  10. Increases ambition when it motivates and fuels revenge/competition.
  11. Does not harm or hamper the ones who don't deserve it.
  12. Willing to go against Personality, Attitude, and Empathy.
  13. Thinks it's in favor of Confidence.
  14. Thinks of Narcissism.

 SUPER-EGO (PROJECTED NEGATIVE-SELF BELIEF):
  1. Involves Un/Sub Conscious, Preconscious and Conscious.
  2. Oblivious extension of oneself.
  3. Proves/filters choices.
  4. Makes one proceeds in the best self-mediated way.
  5. Provides a system of self-judgment and self-compass.
  6. Developed through systemized and/or smart learning.
  7. Used to measure one's validity relative to one's personality.
  8. Default but a different human system in everyone.  
  9. Needed to comply with oneself in life.
  10. Increases ambition when it demotivates; thus fueling self-avenge/self-competition.
  11. Does not harm or hamper anyone intentionally.
  12. Willing to go against Attitude, Confidence, Defeatism, Empathy and Ego.
  13. Thinks it's in favor of Personality.

NARCISSISM (PROJECTED NEGATIVE-EXTERNAL BELIEF):
  1. Involves Un/Sub Conscious, Preconscious and Conscious.
  2. Distant from oneself, offers no tools; only self-preservation.
  3. Offers no choice; proceeds only in the best way perceived.
  4. Un-needed, rarely productive; but worshipped by ones without ego.
  5. Self-consuming Ponzi scheme that decreases actual worthwhile projecting inflated self- respect.
  6. Unhealthy measure of worth of and respect for others.
  7. Projected through assumed/past/future smart work.
  8. Paces oneself against an inflated measure of oneself.
  9. In imperceivable denial is accepted by oneself as ego.
  10. Hungry for attention, reverence, praise, and glorification.
  11. Does not filter harm or hamper to anyone; everything that slows/cuts success is a target.
  12. Can maintain success in the long run when managed by a well-structured system that prevents self-destruction.
  13. Willing to go against Empathy and Ego.
  14. Thinks it's in favor of Personality, Attitude, and Confidence.
  15. Thinks it's against Defeatism and Super-Ego.

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Thursday, December 22, 2016
The "9 Alignment System" is a tool that will help you in understanding any character, real or fictional and even oneself. Any creature's (general) moral and personal attitudes are represented by its alignment (any 1 of the total 9). These 9 distinct alignments define all the possible combinations of the 2 axes of classification: lawful-chaotic axis & good-evil axis:
  1. lawful good,
  2. neutral good,
  3. chaotic good,
  4. lawful neutral,
  5. true neutral,
  6. chaotic neutral,
  7. lawful evil,
  8. neutral evil, or
  9. chaotic evil.

Note - Remember that individuals vary from this norm and that a given character may act more or less in accord with his or her alignment from day to day. Use these descriptions as guidelines, not as permanent judgments.
Reference - 
http://www.easydamus.com/alignment.html
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